Author : Dave Trager
You know what is interesting? When we are really wanting something, in its purest form, it feels very good. It is only when we begin to right away resist what we want, that it feels bad. But can you imagine just wanting the things you want, and having them come to you?That is how it works, you know. But we have this time buffer that screws us up. I won't get into details of how to unravel whatever mess you may have made out of the experience of wanting. But what if we just stopped where we were, and said, "I don't care how I got here. I was mislead in being taught that there were things like limitation and scarcity, and I now know I can have, be, or do anything I want. So here I am—what is it that I want?What if we could stand in that place of knowing, and then ask for the things we want, perhaps by writing them down, or making a collage. And then from there, *knowing* that they *must* be given. How would you feel?Now you are probably feeling 1 of 2 ways. 1- Excited. Eager. Ready for anything. Expecting and trusting your creative power to work, and excited that you now have this awareness. Or, 2- As you begin to write things down you want, thoughts pop into your head that send energy flowing towards the lack of what is wanted. Then you begin to feel bad, and you may even justify your bad feeling by saying, "oh, this is all wishful thinking" or "I'll believe it when I see it", etc. (Which may actually be a step up from where you were before). But it is perspective #1 that is our natural perspective. It is natural to want, and to know that we can want anything, and EXPECT it to come. Can you imagine? Try.So, if you are like me, and maybe just starting to get the hang of this—you will really get moving with a nice charge, very enthusiastically—for hours on end, having the time of your life. And then perhaps you go to sleep, and wake up feeling miserable. This happened to me this morning, and I thought, "why would I feel this way? I want to feel good.". So I began to move in that direction. I later figured out what happened, upon feeling better. The day before felt like a dream. It was a glimse of my utopian life— I had managed to feel so good for such a long period of time, and upon awakening I was in that place of expectancy—of having that life. And of course it was still there, but then thoughts came in as I tried to justify my bad feeling—and then I began to think thoughts and remember things that felt like that—law of attraction at work. Then I couldn't really get my focus off of the bad feeling. I just pushed up against it, really really hard! "I felt so damn good yesterday, screw this, screw that, screw these people—great, I just stepped in dog shit". You know how that goes. ;)But somewhere along the way, I had to just stop and laugh at the things that were going wrong. And began to relax—realizing that's all I had to do, relax into who I really am. That joyful feeling I remembered vaguely from yesterday. "Well, that feels good, I will try more to remember that"—then law of attraction is working with me, I am now remembering thoughts from yesterday, things I completely forgot. And also fun times I have had in the past, times where people were making me laugh, and I was surrounded by people who loved me. But you always have to focus. It gets easier and easier, but our only real "work" is to focus on what feels best.So then I get back in tough with my wants, and I remember that my desires are supposed to feel good—and because it feels good to me to get my eyes on where I want to go, I begin to remember and read over my list of things I want. And I allow myself to come into alignment with them—just for fun.What is really important here is that we realize there is this time buffer, and it will take time before our wants and desires manifest into physical form, and to remember that wanting in its purest form feels very good, and to come into alignment with that as much as we can—that really speeds things up. But when we are realizing that something isn't here, and we are worrying, complaining, etc—that is just pushing it away, in the other direction. Can you imagine what that must look like from a birds eye view? Kind of like when we were teenagers, and a car-less friend would want a ride somewhere—and then he would call us, we would come, then he would try to go for the handle, and we press on the gas. He runs to catch up, and we press on the gas a little harder. lol We say we want something, and here it comes. And just before it gets here, we worry, or doubt it, or get flustered that its not here yet—it goes in the other direction a little bit. Then we get back into alignment, and here it comes—we get jealous of someone else who has it—there it goes.But really, who cares. Who cares if we have to turn it around 10 times, or 100, or 1000—we can't help but to eventually get it. And just like a baby learning how to walk—you aren't going to kick the baby while he's down, you are going to congratulate him on each attempt, and know that he will eventually get it. That is how we have to approach ourselves, and each other as we remember how to do this stuff. =) Just like walking upright, it is pure instinct.Dave Trager is founder and CEO of www.FeelGoodVibes.com.
Keyword : desire
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